Today is day 4 of my 5 day Staycation at my in laws which will be my new home come this Sunday. It’s hard going from having your own space to sharing a bathroom kitchen and pantry with 5 other people. Right now though I am not complaining. I’m not one of a complainer anyway. First off,the house is huge and I don’t have to pay for nothing. That sounds pretty good to me.
The only thing is that now my husband is back “home”he is back to his at “home”habits. Let me explain. He has thra e brothers and before we got married he had to make time for me. To talk to me, to see me. Now since I’m in the mix, time for me isn’t it longer a priority since I’m already here too. Idk what do you think. Am I being emotional again or is this a legitimate concern? I need a second
Correct me if I’m wrong, but there’s always that 1 person at work that I simply cannot stand! What is the deal? There is no reason for us to have any interaction but I feel that she just always finds someway to get underneath my skin. These are a few ways to help they day go a little smoother.
1. Kill them with kindness
It really is hard to be mean to someone that is super nice to you. If you’ve already been butting heads, this will definitely throw them off and probably get them off your back for a few days.
2. Try to get to the bottom of their anger towards you
There is usually always a reason why a person would be singled out. Ask if you’ve done anything to offend them. If they don’t have a reason, or at least not letting you know the reason, wrong impressions are usually the reason.
3. Stay Busy
If you’re busy, theres no time for heckling.
4. Keep your head above the water
Try not to show any emotion. It becomes less satisfying to the other party when you don’t respond. If you show you aren’t bothered by them, messing with you will serve no purpose.
5. Be Successful
Success is the best revenge. This is also better for you, if they don’t stop, use them as your motivation. Not only will this work out for you in the end, but also showing, you are not the one to be messed with!